improve the situation the friendship friendship is a community project today great struggle is meeting blandina morning they've been seeing each other regularly for 4 weeks well that both women are housewives and grandmothers grace is helping blank you know through her depression. what are you doing to feel better she asks. approaches based on cognitive behavioral therapy grace listens to people's problems and helps them figure out their own solutions. talking to one of the grandmothers makes me feel better than talking to a doctor because i can be more open. and anyway i can't afford to see a doctor my dignity my randian even the unity and you know. when people come to sell me a new kind. and new. love is important and so is listening. grace chokers patience blank on hanging and her husband live nearby with their grandchildren no one in the family has a steady income. blandness depression began when one of her children died. but it took her a while to realise she wasn't well. depression was only diagnosed when she went to hospital because she was suffering from high blood pressure. in rural zi