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on a personal -- happiest and most blissful on a personal level. do you have any idea when that was or is it yet to come? >> yes, there was a moment when i was doing my first play. "fool for love". 90 minutes. no intermission and the challenge from roger robinson. i had just seen years ago doing "soldier's play" at the ensemble play. tavis: he won an award last year. i love roger. >> he said pam, you should do it. you have this energy. you have a spectrum of energy and a well, a deep well. and i didn't think i could achieve what i saw on stage with these fine, fine actors and when i saw my first -- when i had my first performance, i felt it then. "fool for love." i was completely -- this is what i love. this is what it is all about and i was so -- i was content and i was challenged and i was passionate and it has enhanced my passion to this day. tavis: there are some wonderful parts of this book that, i mean, being a fan, i knew some of this stuff or at least i knew the service of some of this -- surface of some of this stuff but really getting to

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bliss. hershey's bliss chocolate.ryessa was laid to rest yesterday ... after he was killed by a roadside bomb in afghanistan july 14th. 21- year- old army spe >> good morning a soldier was laid to rest yesterday after he was killed bay roadside bomb in afghanistan, july 14th. chase stanley enlisted when he was 17 he served a 15 month tour in iraq and was recently sent to afghanistan. >>> the cause of the apartment fire that killed an 8-year-old girl in san jose still under investigation. that girl was visiting from north carolina. ten other people were injured in the sunday morning fire in the willow glen area. >> ac transit riders could have more trouble getting around as the labor dispute involving bus drivers continues. drivers not happy with the contract enforced only them more than a week abow. a court hearing on that contract is scheduled for friday. traffic and weather right after this ,, ♪ [ horns honking ] ♪ [ male announcer ] come into an at&t store and experience tv like you've never seen before. ♪ for a li

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world cup fever gives way to budget bliss. the prime minister spain warned of tough times ahead. -- world cup fever gives way to budget blues. and the iranian nuclear scientist who surfaced in washington is on his way home. welcome -- welcome to "bbc world news," broadcast to our viewers on pbs in america, also around the globe. my name is mike embley. coming up later for you -- a guided tour around the disputed land. our correspondent gets are rare glimpse inside tibet. the chinese government is never far away. in this special report from the tropical mountain forests of kenya and the fight to protect this east african paradise. hello to you. the u.s. government has ordered bp to proceed with a key pressure test on its blown out well in the gulf of mexico. the point is to establish whether they should press ahead and sealed the well completely. officials held the work up for 24 hours until bp could answer the question if this could do more harm than good. it could not be another 48 before it is clear whether the new cap doesn

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. >> what's the formula for a marriage of duration and at least periods of bliss? >> i think the biggest thing you can do is respect the other person. second biggest thing is you need to learn how to let things slide. don't think that everything is said in a derogatory manner, that is offensive. you got to learn when to engage and not to engage. learn what fights to pick and what fights not to pick. most fights, you don't need to fight about them. in the grand scheme of life it does not mean anything. who is going to what on any given weekend, night or weekday. things that matter are the eth acall issues, religious values. those are things that are important. character. you stick with those and there is a solid base for those, then your marriage should last. >> words to live by. >> i hope so. >> pamela paul said she does not expect to film any books in the divorce season. >> i think divorce and books about pornography are big sellers during the holiday season. especially divorce. that is the time we are sitting around the tree with the family and after we are done

bliss. hershey's bliss chocolate.r the reining queen of youtube. her video, most watched ever has been dethroned by 16-year-old pop sensation justin bieber. ♪ baby baby baby oh >> reporter: bieber fever has made viral history. a 16-year-old pop star was first discovered on youtube two years ago and now he's taken over has king, dethroning the queen, lady gaga. ♪ >> reporter: bieber has racked up more than 46 million views of his music video "baby" pushing lady gaga's bad romance into second place. g deeber has tapped into a valuable media. >> there are still fan bases in the millions, even if there aren't record sales in the millions. there are a lot of people interested. >> reporter: bieber has a lucrative record deal and millions of devoted fans. thursday he tweeted saying lady gaga is an incredible artist who he has great respect for. it doesn't matter who has more views. what matters is we have incredible fans. the youtube hits is the newest way to track stars. >> youtube is increasingly a critical way to building

this seemingly blissful relationship faces a hurdle. and a very here see a plane one i have to take a plane and leave. that's because of his visa only allows him to be here six months at a time. is there a straight couple the pair said that they would marry and he would be protected. school the lovers have to be a party. i think it is very important that if we're going to have immigration rose that it would be comprehensive. >> immigration is a privilege not a right and i think that there millions of americans that would love the right of to bring your loved one into the country but that is not the way our immigration laws are written. >> they knows that unless the new immigration law passes christmas will either be spent alone or in one or the other country. for now there's no guarantee that they can >> stay >> dos 0 is something new in the tech market. still ahead we have kind of a show and tell. including the special jacket for your ipad. >> nice weather for the bay area. all have the seven day around the bay for you coming up. >> we

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. >> reporter: their seemingly blissful relationship faces a major hurdle. born in argentina he has lived in new york for 12 years and is a u.s. citizens but he is not. >> whenever i hear or i see a plane, i get sad because i know i have a date that i have to take a plane and leave my life here. >> reporter: that's because his visa only allows him to be here six months at a time. >> there are no hard rules when he can come back. he has to wait for a few months. even six months for a year maybe the person in immigration or agent at the airport was having a bad day and he could be sent back. >> if they were a straight couple, the pair say they would marry and he would be protected. >> partners and lovers are apart that is cruel. >> congressman jerry natler proposing a change in the law that would give homosexual couples the same immigration protection as heterosexual couples. >> i think that it is very important that we have a comprehensive immigration reform that it be comprehensive. >> reporter: groups estimate that 36,000 couples would benefit from it. alth

this is somebody in the crosshairs of bliss investigation. the sheriff is investigating him. if this is him. if this becomes admissible. if they end up charging him. he's in a world of hurt. it would not be unlikely for the d.a.'s office, in l.a. county, if they thought that he in fact, if, and all of these are a lot of ifs. if they think teeth were knocked out. that's -- generally they ask for state prison. this is not a slap on the wrist. this is not misdemeanor conduct. the other problem, by having him come out and do an apology. a lot of things are on there over and above what gloria is talking about. things that are obnoxious, racist. all of that. over and above that. there is a criminal threat, exposure, what we used to call this -- in this state. terrorist threats not criminal threats. >> i'm guessing that you belong in the rose garden or with a bat up against your head. >> in california that's a strike offense. >> and more than that. at one point in the tape. she allegedly said what kind of man hits a woman who is holding a child. and then he says, well, you f'ing des

was his sweet neo-class schism but he despised his cubism and people like alfred stieglitz or lily bliss or john quinn, these great titans of modernest collecting here in america were very frustrated by borough's resistance. >> rose: because they wanted to give things to the best museum in the world? the best museum in america, certainly. >> in those days there were few rivals. the boston museum was very important at that time. chicago was becoming important. >> rose: and the museum was not interested in what they were interested in? >> no. and that pressure continues today. trustees and art patrons are passionate about what they do and they want to see their institution which is they support, their shows same interests, all that is just fine. and they were petitions here to show modernist french paintings in the 1920s. but that resistance gave birth to the whitney museum and the museum of modern art. so two very important and great things happened as a result of that. so it was jump later when we began to keep up with the bequest of gertrude tyne. but many of the subsequent works who ca

downward trend kickstand dropping to 40 minutes per hour and once you've reached that 50 years of marital blissaverage couple converses for three minutes in the hour. that's 150 words or less during an entire meal. according to the british survey the problem is exacerbated by having children. study found parents spoke to each other's raleigh 10 minutes over our long meal if they talk to their kids for 35 minutes. to check out all the details on the study of visit our whats on the web section of www.kron4.com. >> something to look forward to a programming note to tell you about this friday edition of kron 4 news and doctors still will be on friday at 3:00. "meg whitman says she'll run california like her company..." seen this attack on meg whitman? who are these people? they're the unions and special interests behind jerry brown. they want jerry brown because, he won't "rock the boat," in sacramento. he'll be the same as he ever was. high taxes. lost jobs. big pensions for state employees. the special interests have chosen their governor. how about you? live this is kron 4 news at 6:00 at 6:00 t

but maybe ignorance is bliss. >> belva: well, both of you, what have we learned from this experiencetill now? what are we -- are we a better city, society, community? from knowing that this kind of thing went on in the city and government and so on seemed to not have realized -- >> i think when you look at the bakery now and its legacy and all that has come out since chauncey's murder, when we now have a fuller understanding of child rape, child -- i mean, essentially you can call it slave labor that went on within the bakery, the fact that the elder yusuf bey was defrauding the public of thousands of dollars a month in social assistance to his followers. there's almost now an "other than that, mrs. lincoln, how did you like the play" aspect. >> belva: you'll be able to learn more about this next week when the film is shown. so my thanks to both of you for joining us tonight. >> thank you very much. >> belva: well, tomorrow the oakland museum of california opens the exhibit "pixar: 25 years of animation," a collection of more than 500 works that illustrates the process behind the com

but the city has no permit system for those blisses and the city -- businesses and the city is trying to close them down. >>> taking a live look at the big board on wall street. numbers are leer this morning. they've come back a little by. stocks are falling after revenues from goldman-sachs and ibm came in he lower than investors expected. this is the latest sign of weakness in revenues in the corporate earnings season. the dow is down 80, 0,073. nasdaq down, 75. s&p down, 7. >>> this afternoon sunnyvale based yahoo analysts are predicting good news. sales could go up 7% from the same time last year and will be the company's biggest improfit in -- improvement in two years. this is putting more pressure on the community. texas instrument stock is down 4.5%. after yesterday's closing bell, t.i. reported the sales coming in at 3.5 billion. that matched what t.i. had forecast but analysts had been hoping for more. >>> 7:36. let's check in with sal. he's watching everything, especially contra costa county, right? >> that right. it's pretty heavy there on highway 4, westbound as you come o

. >> their blissful relationship is a hurdle burn and argentina he has lived in new york for 12 yearsa u.s. citizen, but he is not. >> i get sad, i know there a date that i have to be on the airplane and leave the my life here. >> that is because disease only allows them to be see your six months of the time. >> he can come back we of the way. even if you're in for six months coming year may be the person at the airport was having a bad day, it could be set back. z if they were stricken told the pair said they would marry and he would be protected. its crew. he supports a parisian in the immigration reform law that would give home was searched for couples the same emigration protection as a federal circuit troubles. i think it is important that if we ever comprehensive end of ritual for it should be comprehensive. >> some dates allow same-sex unions federal law does not allow these and the doors to offer an additional sponsorship to their partners this is a political effort to do not debate. >> bridge is a privilege not right. i think there are millions of americans would love the rig

this is bliss double polara aged in maple barrels, so delicious.healthy guy like you? i didn't think so. the glaze? >> we spoon that over our chicken, nice pan juices, beautiful just like that. >> brings out the flavor, i bet, huh? grab my knife and get a bite of that. let's move on to dessert. >> for the dessert the bakewell tart, cake and pie at the same time. >> two of my favorites. >> pie dough underneath, any jam you like, gooseberry jam, and the pie on top and puree a little bit of berries with lemon juice and a little bit of sugar and mix that. >> i don't mean to be rude by eating when you're talking but this is fantastic, a wonderful taste. fresh berries? >> oh, yeah, bring it on. especially after the workout that we've had. >> a little lemon juice and a little bit of sugar. and you see here. >> tastes as good as it looks? >> that is amazing. >> this smells just decadent. i'll lick the spoon. >> let's take a look at your totals quick while everybody is enjoying this. >> that workout is gone. >> you had $40, you dmam at $39.65. how low can y

he deployed the calvary from fort bliss to the border patrol and to the areas along the border. they stopped the violence on american lives and property, but today this administration is missing in action on the border. meanwhile, the border war continues. and that's just the way it is. the speaker pro tempore: for what purpose does the gentleman from new york seek recognition? >> to address the house for one minute. the speaker pro tempore: without objection, the gentleman is recognized for one minute. >> thank you, mr. speaker. as we celebrate the coming independence holiday, i note with sadness that more american teenagers are killed in auto accidents over the july fourth weekend than any other time of the year. mr. bishop: from 1995 to 2006, over 76,000 americans between 15 and 20 years of age died in motor vehicle crashes, an average of 122 teenage deaths per week. parents can't always be in the passenger seat, but we as a nation can help our teens drive safely through graduated driver's license programs which allows drivers to develop their skills and road awareness before

a courtship that began in seventh grade, 30 years after tieing the knot they remain in a state of bliss early on in our relationship we knew we wanted to work on our skills. >> reporter: they began attending relationship seminars and decided to turn their home into a no-conflict zone. they tackled this agreement by practicing the speaker/listener technique. >> we start to acknowledge that we're seeing a danger sign, we're starting to feel somebody is escalating, getting a little louder, you know, a little rude or somebody were we're spinning wheels on something we think we've worked it through. rather than let it get bigger and bigger and bigger, i'll grab it right then and i'll go, gee, you know, can you tell me what's going on with you? >> whoever has the floor is the one speaking and if you don't have the floor, you're the listener. that's your job. >> scott stanley is the co-author of a new study from the center for marital stud disand the book "fighting for your marriage." >> it's not rocket science. it's showing the speaker that you are really tuned to them right now. >> reporter:

>> ignorance is bliss. >> you just crawl right in?ou are telling me you've got holes in your ceilings. you have anthills all over the place. >> wait. i do want to say one thing. i found another ant. after the extermination and the whole thing and i'm always windexing everything. this morning i'm sitting at my computer and i'm, like, is that an ant? and now i know that they're coming back again. so back to the cinnamon and barley. >> and back to looking for a new apartment which i suggested originally. >> hi, sara. >> you guys asked for photos from fans about what annoys them. this was my favorite one. stacy wrote in standing on a scale with the number. and it says "this annoys me." >> oh, yeah. >> oh, yeah. >> and then another favorite was this one. >> but she has nice feet. >> she does. no faces. this is from amelia. she said i don't know if this girl knows that we can see everything as you're standing behind her. >> i'd take that even further and put yourself in one of the scanning machines. >> beyond that. >> one step beyond that,