so when i was asked to be the godmother at santino their 2nd born, i decided as of boardman, as a mother and also as a daughter to the court that and none of us that walk this earth have the right to judge that ah, 20 years ago our community was dealing with aids. no one was talking about becoming dad. it's a paradigm shift for the gay community. 10 times $88.00. what is 10 times 7 said to me i would have to do that because ever since i was a kid, i wanted to have a family group when i realized i was gay, but i let go of that idea. so martin, i thought what future can i get to my son? society isn't ready. the old 13 that was perfect. 2 or we didn't have 9 months of pregnancy, it became in the house and we made put calm down on the floor right there. and we just kind of sit there and you're like, are we allowed to have this baby like i'm going to tell us what to do. thank you. that for me. thank you. got a you, palm africa just like that. you can call this was your favorite time last year so i ranked really are by increasing through i found out our main aim is so they phelan bay. oh oh. t