i had senator paul sarbanes, i had senator ted kennedy, senator bob byrd who helped me learn the ropes of the appropriation committee that i now chair. but i also had some other special help, from the women of the senate, the spouses of the senate. there was only senator nancy and myself in those days, but the spouses of the guys in the senate really reached out to me, and particularly the southern women were so gracious to help me learn the ropes, even learn what the building was, how to even maneuver here in so many ways. senator hal heffron's wife, mike. sam nunn's wife colleen. and then there was rose -- vivacious, charming, fun and savvy. we often were traveling, we took trips together, we were on a nato committee with thad and myself. it was always rose who said come on, barb, come with us. and she made sure i was not only -- i was both included, that i was ok'ed, and it was this sense of hospitality that i thought my gosh, what a wonderful institution. we're not democrats or republicans. we're working together. and the senator is working and we're working together, the spouses a