or do you agree with brant schticky, the great baseball manager, who said luck is the residue of design. tavis: i agree more with my grandmother who put it this way, it ain't no good luck, it's a good god. i don't believe in good luck, i believe in a god that is merciful and gracious. >> each chapter has ray on a title like "stay humble." when did you learn these lelessons? >> . tavis: the lesson about humility, i learned as a kid. when i was a child, i had a major humility problem. you grew up in a all white community and because i was the only african-american kid and my family was the only african-american family in that trailer park in indiana, you always felt less-man, the odd man out and we were the poorest family in the trailer park and i'm walking around with cardboard in my shoes and i have nine broisters. i always felt like the odd man out so i would take on -- i was a big fan of ali, and you know ali, interviewed him many times, ali, with all that braggadocio, the way i found to navigate my space in that community was to take on that attitude by bragging about my intellect or