i'm like why not try to get them >> reporter: his most adamant opponent, his older sister is a bream nachl that would one day take on the flds literally pulling on one of her sisters to prevent her from leaving. >> she's not going. >> reporter: but then according to sabrina, a bombshell dropped by her husband shook her faith. sabrina's husband. >> wanted another wife. >> reporter: he wanted to marry one of her little sisters. >> and she was 14. >> reporter: she called joe and her other siblings who had left the church. >> we're coming to help you. are you ready. >> reporter: then she says her husband's family insisted on keeping her children. >> there was nothing i could do at that point because i didn't dare go against the church or anything. >> reporter: sabrina who is 32 remarried, with a 3-year-old son and a career as a counselor for troubled youth never lost touch with her first four children but by this past christmas, she says it became painfully obvious as they are kids viewed her as an evil outsider. here refeuding to accept her christmas gifts. it wasn't long after this, just las