a source close to the family says that kobe bryant's widow vanessa will attend the memorial today. christine brennan joins us now, columnist for "usa today." you were on with us, of course, the tragic news, we found out that sunday morning what had happened. what do you think about today as his life is -- his daughter's life, the seven other lives honored in this way? >> it is almost hard to believe this has been four weeks and a day. so many people still so surreal that they're gone and this happen and these families, the girls going to a game and kobe coaching his daughter. that surreal aspect lives on for so many people. today, in the arena that kobe built in many ways, staples center, he'll be honored one final time. you think of both jerseys, 24 and 8, they're in the rafters, the five nba titles that kobe helped the lakers win in the rafters hanging from the ceiling and this is the place, appropriately enough, where kobe and his beloved daughter gigi, a rising basketball star herself, this is the perfectly appropriate place for them to be memorialized and remembered by the sport and by the city