us live now to talk about that is santa clara university associate professor in child studies brett solomon professor solomon. thanks for being here. thanks for having me. in danger hits this close to home. what are common reactions in kids? how does it impact most of them? yeah, i mean most children who? her exposed to gun violence, especially in spaces that they're not expecting it. they certainly are faced with a lot of fear a lot of anxiety. um just generally not knowing you know, what the next minute or what the next hour holds so it really provides a context for adults to be able to make sure that we are able to ideally support our kids who are faced with these very sudden and very tragic incidents. i imagine that many kids might be fearful of going back to school or perhaps they may wonder could this happen to me? could i be shot? how do you begin a conversation with your children about this? do we do we initiated do we wait for them to bring it up? yeah, those are great questions and it really is based off of. developmentallypriate foryo chir young children specifically w do share w