. >> brian: you said i'm going to community college and make something of myself or do the munichingre going to matter. you were told you maybe didn't matter. >> i wanted to matter and i wanted to be an example and be the man she wants to look to date one day. i just knew i wanted to be a father and that was important to me. >> ainsley: we said, everybody needs redemption, everybody is looking for salvation, we are all hurting, everyone has been through something. "save me" is powerful. >> touches the core of the spirit of change. it was honest cry, we all feel, have never said out loud, i feel too shattered beyond repair, i am here on "fox and friends" to tell you, turn that thing around, baby. it worked out for me. >> ainsley: for us, too. >> steve: and when you started in music, you were told by people, you just don't look like you are ever going to make this, you will not make it. you're not, you're not, you're not. >> everything from my voice wasn't strong enough, i don't know if i'm allowed to say fat these days, that fats people wouldn't be in the music. my background was goin