and -- bernstein and lievedsc and d been born in brook lentlin. he was born in and immigrated in 1906. so, that was my mother had some confused pieces of that. and then my grandmother who was pursian and her name was simon and discovered fairly quickly her mother's maiden name was david david and her mother's maiden name was levy. so it didn't get much more jewish than that. but what my -- so my both my grandparents with my -- my mother's parents were closeted/assimilateed and my mother believed -- assimilated and my mother believed they may not have known about each other's hidden jewish identity. >> fascinating. and marnie for yourself. >> the first step was to go hope to -- home to my lover and tell her i was jew. my lover was jewish. my shsaid, i you had a. >> a jewish mind. >> yeah. yes. >> yeah. >> and so that was my first stop as far as my immediate community. and then i went back and i found my relatives in texas and i went and they had some -- i started communicating with them and they had a huge family reunion and brought in all the cous