. >> ros what brout you two back together. >> well, my mother, bletsz her heart, she really was determined that we have a relationship. my sister and i. r havellergiesship with my father. so she would write to him and have us write to him when he moveto new york and he brought us to visit. she brought us to visit him. he would check in from time to time. but finally there were occasions and one in particular at any 25th birthday i was in law school at the time and i was "i can't get started. i've been around the world in e plane, i've started revolutions in spain, the north pole i've charted, still i can't get started with you." and it just... we just communicated so much in that time. and then over the years through fits and start wes found our wa and my wife, who is... i married up. my wife was a great help in getting my father and i to finally find our way to each other. >> rose: milton academy. >> yeah. >> rose: you're living on the south side of chicago. >> uh-huh. >> rose: you didn't know what milton academy was! you're right. exactly. >> rose: and you end up there. >> right. >> rose

. >> ros what brout you two back together. >> well, my mother, bletsz her heart, she really was determined that we have a relationship. my sister and i. r havellergiesship with my father. so she would write to him and have us write to him when he moveto new york and he brought us to visit. she brought us to visit him. he would check in from time to time. but finally there were occasions and one in particular any 25th birthday i was in law school at the time and i was working in the summer at a firm in washington and he came through town and he was doing a gig in northeast washington and he said "why don't you let me celebrate your birthday with you?" and i did and i went over to this jazz club and i don't think we'd celebrated a birthday together since i was three or four years old. i went over to this jazz club and he saw me come in and at the next break he decated the next song to me. and he played an old standard calledi can't gettarted" and i knew the song and knew the words and heust stad at me while he was playing. "i can't get started. i've been around the world in e plane, i've sta