this element was a fourteen-year-old girl, the tragedy occurred in the center of rostov on budyonnovsky avenue she was hit by a car, or she slipped, but she was dragged under the car by grief, of course, i won’t even tell and i don’t wish such grief to anyone. this trip to the holy land helped oliva valery to understand a lot and the sufferings of the virgin became especially close. i just don’t leave these icons. i don’t leave the mother of god at all . i now understand her, as a mother, what she experienced when she stood on the mountain and saw her son die, our lord, i have no words, honestly. whatever happens in her soul, mary fulfilled her maternal duty. she was the perfect mom. and what about jesus, what kind of son was he? he's god, he knows who he knows what he's come for. he is the sun. yes, that's above all, and he is subordinate to a simple earthly woman , his mother must obey her. for me it is incomprehensible. mary did not know parental warmth, but apparently she was surrounded by the care of her son. jesus holyly honored the commandment to honor your mother, he obeyed his parents