paying off mortgages and student loans a part of the plan, and so is giving to the church and bulkering katherine'sogram. they have the freedom to do whatever they want, they say this gift is not getting to their heads. >> if it does change me, i think it would change me for the best. >> reporter: in lawrenceville, nbc 10 news. >> a blessed family, good for them. >>> today, federal officials are advising public schools to let transgender student use bathrooms matching their gender identi identity. there's letters to schools sent across the country warning them to comply with rules that prohibit sex discrimination. the letter states that schools must recognize a students' chosen identity after the school is notified by a parent or guardian that the child is transgender. locally reaction among parents is mixed. >> it's going to confuse them. to me, it's going to confuse them. >> if it is truly america, this should be no problem. >> the letter sent today advises students must be allowed to participate in any sex-segregated school activities consistent with their gender identity. >>> a presidential hon