their busy day to say things like let's take up a collection for a professor at stanford and buy her a burqa improve the aesthetics on the campus. it gave me a window into the bias i was writing about. it is a common technique for taking down uppity women and does deflect attention from job performance than all the things we would like to be focused on. >> host: professor rhode, how immune are meant from this? >> guest: because male candidates they want sober -- a once over allegories fashion sense than bill clinton way. then don't get an entirely free pass, but scrutiny of women is so much more in 10 ambitious. >> host: on the cover, one of the blurbs for your book is naomi wolf, a thoughtful explanation of beauty ideals. naomi wolf was the woman who picked up al gore's wardrobe and she got more flak than he did, didn't she? >> guest: she came under criticism for that, but also wrote one of the pathbreaking accounts of this problem. i was needless to say extremely pleased she found the book a useful way to reignite the debate. >> host: we've been talking with deborah rhode, author of "the b

because in afghanistan there is a beauty that everyone appreciated and i finally see that only has the burqa. this woman has a beauty parlor. she actually makes sure it does all the weddings she was talking about. makeup and all of that. woman also was married to a man 40 years older than her and did not want her to make this man, but they were so worried that they gave out. they were worried he would kidnap her anyways. she is struggling day in, day out to center for daughters to school. she has been sick and nice, but she is not defined by her but story. and if we cannot see her beyond the story, it's a shame on us. the dalai lama said if you cannot respect those who serve, then better not serve them because they would feel if you do not respect them. this woman, she was a soldier again citalopram. this is just one of the pictures. we have other pictures how to use an ak-47. okay i believe you. siting next to their husbands or metallic metallic band. if we minimize them into only the victim's story, we are violating them again. and that's, if you knew me, you would care. if you knew me, yo

half of americans said they would be uncomfortable by a muslim child -- sitting next to one in a burqalane and these are recent polls. so, you know, the reality is, i think this is all playing into the dicey balancing act that the white house has to do because the reality is these polls were taken before the attack in london. >> is our comfort with drones, kelly the fact that we're okay with knowing about the program, we just don't want to know how they're being used? >> one of the polls showed that the language that was used in the question, are you comfortable with drones being used against suspected terrorists? suspected terrorists. what exactly does that mean? we're all great with the idea of someone who could be harming americans or british soldiers for instance, having a drone used on them. but what about someone who's just suspected of being a terrorist. >> you want to have actually hard intelligence that actual plots are being worked upon before you use such immense force as that. people are comfortable with drones because there's no american casualties involved so that's an ea