dora, we call her door buster dora, look, she wans to be somewhere else, kathy. what's going on? >> black friday sales start in 22 hours, and my christmas gifts aren't going to buy themselves. >> you have a good reason. >> she's got to go. >> why did you come in the first place? >> manners. >> i hope first of all that we're on your list. but the thing is, you never want to force someone to stay at your gathering. if they really don't want to be there, let the person go, a goody bag with the desserts that she's missing because she can't stick around >>> you're not going to ruin your serving schedule to accommodate her. >> you didn't plan on that, did you? >> i'm worried about party paul. he's been drink non-stop since he got here. >> who brought this stuff? it's great. >> paul, paul, do you realize how much you're drinking, paul? come up for air, paul. >> we know there are many kinds of drunks, there's the good drunk, the bad drunk. >> and the affection natate one there. as long as he's not insulting people, being obnoxious, let's make certain he is not driving himself home. and i