trust and understanding your partner's team alone with time and friends and ability c tomunicate openly. so first pillar, mutual respect. cornerston the if do you not have respect for your partner, your relationship is in major trouble. and we're not just talking about you having to res about that person. there might be things that you don't agree with or ways that u would handle that. but if you lack that fundamental level of respect that will permeate through everything that you do with that person and in every way you are viewing them. it will -- it is just going to -- there is noay to be in a healthy relationship with somebody if you don't have essential pillar. >> and i would imagine trust is right on that same level, right? >> trust is right there, too. now trustou you sort of develop over time. or maybe it could falter and again.velop i think that is a little harder personally with respect. but when we talk about trus most people think fidelity. i think actually a step above that. i think wn you are talking about trust, you're talking about does this person have my best interests at heart? becaus