can you tell me what it feels like to be here sitting across from calin?id you're pretty. >> thank you. >> today is really the first really large step that you have taken together as five people who are directly impacted by 15 minutes that changed your lives and the fact that you all said we'll do this is a step toward making it not different, the out come won't change and it won't erase the past, but it will be one step forward. >> you're right. >> finishing your sentences now too. >> you might have to end up being a facilitator in me. because you bring out the best in people. >> he's going to hawaii. >> yeah, but we'll see what comes out of this, i'll let you know. >> forget this place. can i give you a hug? is that okay? >> it's up to you ash. >> you give good hugs. >> she does. she's a strong, strong hugger. >> you're welcome. >> she said have a good life. >> it was nice meeting you. >> bye, ashley. >> thank you for that. thank you. always so easy to be mad and angry and it's so much tougher to be open and honest. and like you said, it doesn't fix it.