callculturally, we don't have a ritual like mexico has the day of the day november 1st and 2nd. i assist people in creating rituals that are meaningful to them to enable them to cognitively, physically, emotionally recognize there's been a change. i see all loss as the loss of the familiar. >> it reminds me and explains why some people otherwise may feel they, in quotes, are handling the grief enlike when a parent dies and they move along and like something happens like their pet gets sick and all the sudden they say i don't understand why i can't stop thinking about my father who died eight months ago when all that happened was i lost my keys. so i think the flip side tv is coming to a greater awareness of integrating loss triggers and in ways that loss gets triggered on regular life experience like losing keys. >> and how grief is really a series of building blocks. even if the person who has had the death in the family at a young age resolves it, which is the word i don't like to use but gets through and moves on and becomes transformed, later it all comes back. inside our he