. >> i was making a movie with candice bergen, if i don't turn back this way i will be an armed forces radio network. >> all right. >> but you don't mind? >> talk to those people. >> all right. [ laughter ] >> you are making a movie -- >> i was making a movie with candice bergen, in a castle, outside of london. we were sitting in a little room, off the main hall, where they were setting up the cameras and an english woman who i think owned the castle came in and said did someone ask you to wait in here? and i said no. and she said it would be so nice if you weren't here. [ laughter ] >> now that's what you call a screen. >> yes. >> later when you sweeten it -- >> yeah, you punch it up. this is live and we won't have time to edit it. you live or die the way it goes here, we don't edit this. >> but i would rather you tell the story since it's your crowd. >> all right. >> so the next question you ask me, you answer. [ laughter ] >> now the reason i call the book it would be so nice if you aren't here -- the book is about dealing with rejection and surviving when you deal with a lot of dif