>> i was married to carey heidt. >> how long were you married? life with carey. >> we had a very good, very prosperous living. yes, sir. >> did you ever like -- lack for anything. >> no. >> was he always able to provide? >> yes he was. >> what kind of husband was he? >> a very good husband. >> and how carrie was good with the three children as well. >> he was the best father, a wonderful father. >> but then, she explained, that in 2008. things got rocky between her and a husband. >> he spent a lot of time at work. a lot less time at home. he became very distant with me. i wasn't really sure why, i didn't realize that the real estate business was not going as well as it had been going. and i knew there was some problems but, there was a lot of problems and he didn't discuss them with me. so we became pretty distant. as far as our marriage, and relationship. >> the strain in their union was enough to cause driving to stray from carey. and in a shocking way. >> yes, in april of 2008, i engaged a relationship with his older brother, craig. >> coming