carol baker got 30 years. andy baker never got a chance to meet. >> this is randy james. >> betty clings to her baby randy, her daughters and her husband, but it's hard, she said, missing her dad. >> this situation has made me felt like i'm not in control of anything in my life, and the one person who made me feel like i could be in control of it was him, and i can't call him to see if i'm handling this the right way or -- >> although i must tell you, as you're sitting here talking, you've been calling on him again and again. >> and in the end, with all her smiles and boundless good manners, randy baker's daughter is just as tough as he was. maybe tougher. maybe she just doesn't know it yet. >> that's all for this edition of "dateline." i'm natalie morales. thank you for watching. ng >>> first up on msnbc, the nation's capitol, under attack again, just three months after the deadly insurrection. >> new reporting surrounding the death of capitol police officer billy evans. an 18-year veteran of the force. after