carolyn carroll, the last woman i talked about. i was in new orleans with lynn ashley, and we were at the program at the world war ii museum. and when i was -- i was in the new orleans airport after i had left lynn and the program, and i came up behind this woman with this huge pack on her back. and it was the camo, you know, from the desert storm and all. and there was a zipper unzipped on the back of it, and i came up to her and i was just buying a bottle of water, and i said, oh, excuse me, would you like me to zip your zipper? she was very gracious. and i waited for her because i thought, oh, here is a woman who i might be able to interview. when she came out of that little store, we stood and talked. and i tell you, she was the most interesting, wonderful person and so gracious to then, later, let me interview her over the telephone. she had a son in iraq, as mine was at the same time with the first cavalry division. while she was in afghanistan, he was in iraq. so it shows you what people go through in multiple roles of being