>> i don't think you can lay it all on carrie bradshaws jimmy choos. we've seen shifts in terms of entitle men. i drink because i can. i drink because men can, and i can. as the doctor was saying, democratically we're equal, but met polly and hormonally, we are not. i made myself very vulnerable. it was a big struggle to turn it around. >> ann mentioned this earlier, but historically, going back to the generation of our mothers, people who had problems, they referred to them as mother's little helpers. 20 million women were taking valium. why the shift from those drugs to alcohol? >> women stayed home, now they're not, and it's cool to be outside and to mingle as opposed to stay home. >> the alcohol industry has a lot to do with it. you mentioned the sweet drinks marketed to women and younger people, but it's also one thing that shocked me when i was reading your book is that one lobbyist in washington per every two members of the congress in the alcohol industry? that's amazing. >> you get an expert like at the center for alcohol marketing and he was