and on february 20th, 2008, the moon rose full over the carson valley. after dinner, ben, melissa, her teenage brother, craig, and little alyssa settled in the den to watch a movie. melissa remembers falling asleep on the couch, waking up with a start. >> thinking i was late for work. it was like 2:30 in the morning. i was like, oh, i'm not late. so i went and got into bed. >> reporter: crawled in with ben, she said. moonlight on the covers. warmth inside. >> about an hour later is when i was woke up by the smell and then a loud noise. and my ears were ringing. at first, i thought i was dreaming. >> a smell? >> yeah. it was a smell of the gunpowder. >> gunpowder smell? >> yes. >> reporter: she looked over to ben, saw by the light of the moon he appeared to have slept through whatever it was. she nudged him. he didn't stir. >> i was like okay, i'll go check it out. so, i walked around our bed and got about halfway down the hallway and realized our front door was open. >> but you didn't see anybody? >> nope. >> reporter: halfway down the hall she said, col