carty linda's daughter tries her best to maintain family ties with her mom, whose life is on hold. it's a challenge to make her exist spiritually to her children, to maintain a semblance of normality. this isn't their 1st christmas, but this is one of their christmas. and of course my mom gets copies of all of these photos. and we try to send as many as possible the boys as many cards as they possibly can. so they write letters to keep in contact dated on what's going on, family gossip. and if you grandchildren, who have never seen the grandmother that they hear about all the time, and who will one day learn the truth about her crime? i usually have my mom with the newest announcement here. anything that's new, it's cool. everything like that. picture will be the one that got the news announcement next to it, but yes, she's always included. and you think all the time all the time, mother's day was always pretty difficult. one of the questions, what kind of questions with the normal questions? you know, how soon they are doing was last time we talked to nana are we, when are we goin