300 miles to the south, his brother cary was an upperclassman at merced high school. >> he was cary stayner there was a pall over him. >> he was actually voted most creative. cary was very well known for his drawings. i think he was a very, very good cartoonist, especially with the humor. >> he always wore a hat every time you would see him. >> he was wearing a hat because he was compulsively pulling his hair out. >> emotionally, cary had a tough time during his childhood. >> i don't remember cary ever having a girlfriend, and i never saw him with a girl. >> cary started acting wildly inappropriately towards females. he exposed himself to one of his sister's friends. >> it seemed as though he had a compulsion with trying to get close to women or be sexual with them. but he was unable to develop any sort of interpersonal relationships with any women. >> there's a surreal contrast in this. you have one brother who's been subjected to just unspeakable horror for years, but by all appearances he's a happy-go-lucky, jovial kid with a girlfriend. you have the other brother who's left at home. and