we arethere going to see the catherine donovan truth and the royal ballet. and they also had there own. they were much more suspicious of white individual people with good reason. but they also, my parents, there were things that they just loved. my mother probably could have been a writer. you know, and she read to me all the time. books and love literature. my father had been a jazz musician and the classical musician college and grad school. jazz was myis my legacy. going to the symphony was my legacy, too. of course i am simplifying it a bit, but they made sure we had all the things. they have both grown up with less money and less access. their parents were very ambitious and have had -- both of my grandmothers had gone to a little school in the south. everything was much more difficult. and they, you know, sheltered us and prepared us in the best way. i we will tell you a gender story from my father that shows you the meticulousness. he said at one point, you know, it is important that we make sure and take the girls out regularly to very nice restaura