i think of catherine hepburn. she was an old arch that carried a lot of weight, of wisdom, wanting to be a teacher. when you have that in you as an older person, you tend to be happier. interestingly enough, the research shows that women who exbit what eric erickson called generaltivity tend to have more orgasms. i'm sure that really fascinates you. >> yes, it does. >> caring about the bigger picture ismportant, having a good attitude. >> take a look at this. this is an arc and this i a staircase. >> the old paradigm view of aging is the arc, you are born, peek at mid life and decline to decrepitude. and then you mound in terms of spiritual ground of growth, emotional growth, brvegging wiser. -- becoming wiser. and that isrue. i show in my book how you can do that. we're fine nears. now the average person lives 34 years longer than our great grandparents d it's a whole second adult lifetime that has been added on so why not do everything you can to make the most of it. a third of it goes, we have nothing to do wit