yourself that was part of creating yourself you know it was great to foretell the future was charles schulz to crew the peanuts cartoon remember a stupid lawyer. lucy and i remember one of the strip i read this as a child and a member distinctly linus picked up a rubber band and he stretched it a little bit and then lucy comes over to watch him and then linus starts to really have fun of to throw a band like he's having fun like the time of the blood and then lucy grabs it and walks away. you know she's an authoritarian she was lucy's a dictator and she was always pulling the football way from you pull the football away from charlie brown ok she was a socially pol pot of children's cartoons so is. it's making them authoritarian but it's of a not or a terry mindset but it's also all this a sheltering of the child and home and the home has a lot to do with the stranger danger here so i'll recount a personal story so we go to visit my mother my stepfather in north carolina down near the coast we go there all the time. several times a year for years and i assumed it was like a retirement commun