from a very celebrated writer and great admirer of yours, chimamanda ngozi adichie. you. but this is what she also says. "i do find that women in the west have brought "into the idea that somehow they are incomplete "without a man. "women in nigeria" — she is nigerian — "may think they are incomplete without children, "but not necessarily without a man." yes, well, i know what she is saying. and i would agree with her. but i would also point out to her that, in today's nigeria, in today's ghana, given what the churches are pumping out and how society is being changed, negotiated, very soon we will leave that nice place. young women who are about the same age of my daughter or younger think they are not complete without men. i see what she is saying. yes, and it is also articulated by one black activist, 0wen alik shanadah, an african scholar and film director who says, "feminism is part of warfare against the african family unit, and seeks to erode age—old human values while claiming to serve the interests of it." he supports women's rights, but i am just saying, thi