chris and franny conners are teammates sharing everything from the mundane to the medical. >> breast cancer was the last thing in my mind. >> reporter: six year-old franny got breast cancer twice she just got over her last bought and six five-year old husband christmas also had breast cancer, twice including right now. >> chris and i are both brca positive. >> reporter: the bad luck draw that plays out over generations. their two daughters inherited the genes. >> my two girls decided to go with risk reduction surgery which i felt was very courageous of them. >> reporter: there is no shortage of courage in the conners household or family photos. chris a manager and franny the nurse met by chance as teens in the group. >> all i could think of do you have a match. >> reporter: was there ever a match, marriage, three kids, grandchildren, cancer for them both and a strategy. >> we weren't allowed to have a pity party on the same >> reporter: they pick up on each other mood, grand kid toys in the yard trying to keep life normal when it often has not been. franny's first breast cancer diagn