son who actually died serving his country yes and would and has her as cindy sheehan's ex-husband said she would have vehemently disagree with everything she did in his name at that house is not cindy sheehan it's about the bigger issue of whether we're disconnected from war and you know adults we're not disconnected from war that we don't listen to from our i i when you see how remote controlled essentially a war that's covered by you know m.s.m. p.c. gung ho and this n.b.c. and we don't really understand what the costs are we don't see the whole the physical toll the emotional toll on our troops don't you think that we're a little bit we were rushed into i got saudis in the marine corps and one of the things that pictures they sent me on line was a picture that you know written on a locker and it said you know america's not at war the marine corps is one that says they're calling out to us and saying look we need your support and we need you at our back to be able to do what we're doing but we also need you to be sharing that sacrifice and be here with us or bring us home and what be