the bureau chief from the times i got to go margaret through clifton daniel. harry truman idolized his harry truman idolized his wife, loved his family. he bombed 100,000 people was a great family man. >> host: i assume george bush was a nice father family man and a cheney. cheney. >> guest: yes indeed. >> host: how do you deal with that between their personal lives and what they do in the real world? >> guest: to try to tell my students to be professionally angry but personally gentle. one of my close allies at the post was a great reporter and a key with a great reporter. he was the most gentle man and raised three loving children and had a very happy marriage. >> host: it is a beautiful combination of things. >> guest: i can't take another outrage. i had my air the dedication. >> host: another thing i wanted to bring up is the advice that you get to the students that want to live and promote in a more peaceful world. i was a little confused because sometimes it seems that you are getting great congratulations to people that come out into the peace corps or