marriage but i refuse to fall in love and marry another man in a fabulous destination wedding in corsica on the beach, everyone wearing cream colord linen no shoes at sunset with a steel drum band. ( cheers and applause ). i won't do it. i will not do it. our struggle will not be easy, my straight brothers and sisters. but take comfort in the words of mahatma gandhi -- the gandhi of civil disobedience -- who said, "first they ignore you. then they ridicule you. then they fight you. and then you win." also, two dudes getting hitched? yeesh, i have lost my appetite." but nation, religious leaders imposing their beliefs on public policy is not enough. no, we need to take personal action just as the little rock nine marched into that school, so too must we march into brian and roger's wedding and chain ourselves to the champagne fountain. and when you r.s.v.p., which of course you'll do because it will be a fun wedding, check the box for chicken but when you arrive ask for the salmon. it will throw catering into chaos. then when they least expect it, sidle up to the d.j. and request a one-ho