, and she didn‘t wanta woman from county westmead, and she didn‘t want a notorious wall hellhole in her. —— notorious hellhole. so it was the jewel in the crown of the sacred heart empire, they owned the four biggest of the nine mother and baby homes. 0k, four biggest of the nine mother and baby homes. ok, so what you have since worked out is that your mother went in there for a month, and you we re went in there for a month, and you were successfully adopted and have had...i were successfully adopted and have had... i mean, you love your adoptive parents. absolutely, yes. yes, no, adoption does damage, but good parents and a lot of love can heal a lot of that damage, and certainly i was incredibly lucky to have wonderful parents. my dad passed away about three years ago, my mama still alive and i still love her to bits, and my mama still alive and i still love herto bits, and i my mama still alive and i still love her to bits, and i still love my dad everyday. you wrote in this book that you had this fantasy about what it was like, an old georgian house, young mother in a chair with co