and the answer after 20 minutes was well i can give you a prescription for cymbalta. it's. it's it's it's it's. it's it's when i did move out and he called me and said that he was standing in a basement next to a noose and i said and what's your safety plan and. he said to call you and i said see if you plan to hang up and call 911. and. having to tell him that. it feels callous to me when you're going through withdrawal psychiatric drugs the best thing is to kind of get back. off that ledge. and just say dave just give yourself give yourself more time. give yourself more time continue to fight for it. you know and some day you know you. regain a sense of normalcy in your day to day life. typically we find that the withdrawal phenomenon is the opposite of whatever the drug does if the intention of the drug is to help somebody be more relaxed or help them fall asleep then when they're experiencing withdrawal what they will experience is anxiety restlessness and insomnia they may even get so bad that they you know are profoundly depressed and consider suicide withdrawal sympt