but daisy bates was there every day advisor, counselor, teacher, comforter. she then announced in little rock for many years and she became kind of the point person to help these nine children get through the terror of walking to school everyday, confronting physical and emotional abuse on a daily basis. she became one of the heroines. she could have been excused for being hateful. just after she was born, her mother was someone and murdered by three white race is and she was put into the care of a couple's appearance. as she grew up, she saw her step. taken an enormous amount of abuse themselves. she saw it with your own eyes. one time she went out with her stepfather inside, why do you ask that this abuse? why don't you hate these people who do this to you? she said quite simply and this is a comment you hear pretty much to almost anybody involved in the civil rights movement. .. . >> when margin of 13 back to his speech were he said the most important for words not i have a dream all the love of passage but unearned suffering is redemptive. harold told me