>>> and daisy martinez. >>> we're back on this friday.ding to a survey, the level of communication between a mother and daughter increases during and after college. but can you become too attached? >> here to answer that question is psychologist dale atkins and jill martin, and her mother. look at her mother, georgette, harriet cole and her mom, doris. gorgeous all the way around. >> now, the topic is revealing too much. i guess can we reveal too much? let's start with jill. let's begin in the middle. >> you reveal a lot of stuff to your mom. >> i do, and we speak numerous times in the day, morning, afternoon and night, e-mail. but the thing is, i reveal more to her than she does to me. i think that's the distinction. ly tell her anything. >> anything? >> anything. >> jill, i know some stuff about your life. that is the stuff you would tell your mom? >> yes, but not on tv. >> how do you react? when she tells you something that is a sensitive topic? >> i feel that a mother should be a place that -- a soft place that you can tell anything.

daisy martinez is executive chef. that is from mami verse. it with lemon and grapefruit juice. i brown the boneless pork shoulder. we will go ahead and add onions and garlic and what could be bad? >> what is all that? i have cinnamon, cumin and all these beautiful warm spice. this is mexican chorizo. this is saw sausage. >> just the way i like it. >> raw. >> this is a dream come true for me. i can't believe this. mush it all up and add some canned chopped tomatoes and we are making a sauce. this is what we braise. >> look at you with the bay leaves. >> now we put the meat back and let it simmer. >> is that meat cooked all the way thru? >> we cook it for 90 minutes to two hours. >> that are will take a while. >> we will cover that. look at that. lock at what we have here. >> where is the fork? >> we shredded it. we will go ahead and add it back in. it's gorgeous. >> it's cinnamon. all the warm spices. not what you typically think of. i made this and i have a friend who is mexican and i had her taste it. her eyes water and she said it tastes li