jer rabinowitz's widow about that; as well as sharyn stein whose husband dan was also killed that daydan leger and his wife ellen. >> leger: you know at mother emanuel church, the person who killed, what was it, nine people, sat in bible study with them for an hour and then he pulled out his gun and shot them. >> stahl: and then they forgave him. do you think about that? >> sharyn stein: i think about it a lot, and i have not gotten to the point where i have that forgiveness. i mean, it's going to be a long time. >> stahl: and dan? >> leger: i forgive this man for what he did to me. he made a terrible decision. he made a horrible decision. but i can't forgive him for killing 11 people, because those people are dead, and they're the only people that can forgive him. >> miri rabinowitz: and knowing jerry, he also would forgive the shooter. not-- and i'm not quite there yet. >> stahl: but he would have. >> rabinowitz: oh yeah. >> stahl: miri told us life is still a daily struggle. >> rabinowitz: i mean, i am devastated that he's gone. >> stahl: how important is now your faith given what'