tom shelton has been living apart from his wife annie and adopted son dandan for almost a year now.ed someone outside of the european economic area, and are unable to satisfy home office minimum income requirements for a visa. it's taken a toll on his mental health. after three months of separation, i was often breaking down in tears when i saw families together or hear music with, you know, references to families of children. for me, that shouldn't be happening to me, you know? families like tom's keep in touch online, earning the nickname skype families. it means dinners over facetime, constant whatsapp messaging. 0ne father even taught his baby daughter to learn how to crawl over video messenger, and we could be about to see thousands more after brexit. at the moment, non—european economic area citizens wanting to join their british partner orfamily in the uk can do so via the surinder singh immigration route. this involves a british partner moving to the eu for at least six months, where, thanks to europe's rights of free movement, non—eea family can join them. they can move to