will answer himself, i say: son, you can answer this question yourself, and there is a game called danetkah is great for teaching this, namely, to analyze, i can answer this question, or do i really need outside help, so if a child comes to me with a task that is feasible for him, don’t help, and here important for the child like. let's think, and if this is a problem, then on the one hand , answer less ourselves, son in the store, yes, you can now make this decision yourself, make it, and here of course it is important that the more responsibility the child has, the more problems will arise, that is , where they will make the wrong decisions, and here again for the parents, yes in this there are pros and cons, the cons you will have well, not everything is so smooth, neat, pros. knows, sometimes it is even easier not to strain, he just say: "styopa, tell me this girls, or remind me of this." this, firstly, increases his self-esteem, it is very important to him and he is pleased that we appreciate it, almost every child has it, you can find his strong side, his strong point, and turn to hi