. >> there was a baseball player, dani dani daniel murphy, whose wife had a baby, and he took a few days off pat earnty lead, and he faced a big backlash. is it at the point where men feed a movement too. >> they always needed it. i came back from india, because i lived in india i realised how segregated this country was visually. and i got mad. on my own behalf, who is telling me who their frents are. when -- friends are. when men get mad saying "i want to be there when my child is born, it's an irreplaceable moment." i was glad that the one sports commentator that most criticised was most condemned. >> it feels some women are suffocated by the amount of choices. what ann-marie slaughter calls unresolvable tension between family and carrier. is it an unintended consequence of feminism. >> no, it's an unintended consequence of antifeminism. the point of feminism is humanity. it means men should and must become parents that spend as much time with children as women do. that question presuppose it's impossible. >> does it presuppose that we are not there, that there are not enough men will