i truly, always regret that i think i regret that i don't know you there's a really, um, daniel pinker has a new book out about not new relative new ish about regret. and i think it's very smart and it's very regret is an interesting emotion in itself. i mean, i have certainly have regrets, too, about things i've quit things i didn't quit. for me, it's more the things i didn't quit when i should have. so but again at the center of all this is this issue of how we're going to spend our time, who we're going to spend it with. it sounds me like you've made decisions based on personal principles, and that's never a bad thing. but i guess i would flip it and after reading, usually flip it and say, well, if you'd stayed, what would have happened? not in the hotel room. we don't need to think that. but yeah, i l otherwise. yeah, i mean it is always, it really is always like. well, the way i, you know, how i cure myself of it. yeah. i've told this story times to friends that if i had stayed in the whip's office, i might have been crossing over to office building and a car would have hit me and