. >> are you a big dater, alec? >> probably not, no. >> not a big dater.ght? we've got a couple of questions. i'm curious to see how you answer. appearance and first impressions are everything. do you agree or disagree, alec? >> i think -- i think i agree. because you -- >> why are first impressions important? >> well, i think because you come up and you're like, i really like that guy because you have a good first impression. because if you don't have a very good first impression, it still might not work out. >> that's true. howard, what do you think? >> we say in the book, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. i can give you an example of that. a guy i know who took a woman out for a first date, and ordered two cups of tea. after the tea was consumed, he'd, let's split the check. it was a very bad first impression. >> never do that, alec. >> never saw him again. >> where do you go to meet girls, alec? >> you don't really, like, meet girls at my age. it's kind of like you just talk about it. you don't really like -- >> if you were goin