look at here it's time to return to bender. ♪ return to bender ♪ ♪ return to -- >> david. ♪ -- benderm taking her out to dinner. >> how has been going? >> lots of booze. >> stephanie: david bender missed the only flight out of bum-f wherever we lived. >> i was fogged in for a 36-hour period. >> stephanie: oh. >> down here you would rather curse that you can't get up there, than being up there being really terrified you can't get on the ground. >> stephanie: you didn't miss anything. >> i am however leaving on my journey. i am heading to seneca falls, i will be in selma tomorrow and i wind up in stonewall where it is bagels for everybody. when i lived in new york -- this is how our history has evolved. stonewall was 46 years ago, and all of this has happened in a very small period of time. >> stephanie: right. compared to any other civil rights battle right? >> seneca falls was in 1848 and women didn't get the right to vote until 1920. think about that. and the emancipation proclamation, 1863 voting rights act 1965. it is the turtle pace. i have been listening on the progressive voice'

. >> stephanie: i texted david bender, and he is like get a picture. >> you know who was on our flightory. callista on the plane with him, and at baggage claim she was nowhere to be seen. so i i'm thinking he divorced her. >> that's possible. >> >> stephanie: okay. go ahead. >> we had david arquette on our flight. >> stephanie: wow. and more importantly somebody important is on the phone. ♪ karl ♪ ♪ frisch ♪ >> stephanie: i even got to cuddle with him and spoon with him. >> oh, my goodness is it over? >> stephanie: it was like prom weekend. >> you were at pretty much every ball weren't you? >> stephanie: i started the weekend with lady momma and ended with lady gaga. >> stephanie: that's right. you tweeted -- it is so cold in new york that dexter von frisch is currently wearing his down coat. >> that's right. there is something that follows a sexy liberal performance, it's called a sexy liberal hangover. >> stephanie: which is not quite as fun. >> i had lunch with you the next day and you seemed fine. >> it was fine. my favorite was on the walk over from the hotel, steph says now is th