david stern, the commissioner, immediately slapped him with a $100,000 fine. he then apologized.id that make you question whether this was the right thing to do or that that much more certain you should do it? >> the irony of the timing it was the day before i had been sitting in david stern, the commissioner's office, to kind of discuss this with him. the next night kobe went off. you know, i think it reinforced that probably it was the time because i think that will probably be remembered also as a teaching moment. and i think he's apologized for it. i think he regrets doing it very much. but it was a conversation starter, for sure, and led to another step in the dialogue. >> and were there unique moments over the course of your career that it was harder than others? when magic johnson, for instance, came out and told people he had hiv and there was pushback and conversations in the early '90s, i think, in the nba. was that a moment you said, gee, i'm carrying a secret here, i want to be part of this conversation and discuss what it means to be hiv positive? how did that affect