they stettled down in dearborn. two years after they're married, a baby girl arrived. we'll call her amy though that's not her real name. >> i was proud to hold her after she was born. >> the world was open to their family, they didn't have to stay in dearborn. more exotic notions beckoned. >> when i first met him, you know, i didn't know anything about turkey. i thought it seemed like an interesting place and a different thing to do with my life. >> so just before amy's first birthday, linda had an announcement for her family. actually, two. one, she was pregnant again. there would be another baby. and two, oscar had been offered a prestigious teaching job at an important university back in turkey. they'd be moving overseas. the news was not exactly what linda's mother, karen, had been hoping to hear. >> that's not something that i really like the thought of, and my first granddaughter, my only granddaughter, actually. >> but if karen was unhappy about the move, linda, as her friends couldn't help but see, was excited. >> she had this great attitude about it, experien

canadian border we will find a few customs agents and pt controls, but you will not find the 802nd dearborn. he will not find an armored division. he will not find canadian soldiers on the other side. why? because canadians do not lay awake at night thinking that we are about to invade. we don't lie awake at night thinking that they are going to invade. why is that? in some ways it is a much more profound observation than the fact that the taliban are fighting. the americans are going after the tall band. that is what happens since the beginning of time. and so what i want to discuss with you tonight is the other stuff, the magical all too rare moments in international history when peace breaks out, and nothing happens, countries become so comfortable with each other that they demilitarize their relationship. they keep their borders undefended. they let down their guard. they eliminated or as a legitimate tool of statecraft. so i would like to do three things in the next 30 minutes. one is tell you how i went about examining this puzzle, how and when peace breaks out, how the store and foun