debby leighton. >> michelle talked about a few problems in the marriage.rimarily growing apart over the years. marty was away for extended periods of time.s she had a hard time with that. it was getting difficult for her. she was lonely. et >> sometimes he was gone for months and when he finally did come home, military families have come to know that adjustment period all too well. they bickered, they argued about her housekeeping, his job, about having children. he wanted them, she didn't. she was worried she'd be stuck raising them by herself in a town where she was already miserable and lonely. >> fayetteville, loserville and had nobody to hang out with, nobody i could pick up the phone and call. >> that actually is about the time it started. harmless really. just a few key strokes. see what might happen. goes on all the time these days on the internet. sexy brunette seeks rendezvous man. and before long, her internet inquiry got a response. from him. the name was john, john diamond. >> john loves women. john was a lady's man. john always had girlfriend