debora l. spar are you a feminist? see it if you would have asked me that question five years ago i would i would have said absoly not. the combination of taking the job i have now in writing this book has made me a die hard feminist although i think the word itself is a complicated word and i think we can get too caught up on the word itself rather than thinking about the issues behind feminism which most women are stones lay in favor of. see how do you define feminism and what are we getting caught up in? >> there's a great t-shirt we have floating around the system to the effect that feminism is a crazy idea and women are equal to men. that is what feminism is about. there is no one who can argue with that anymore these days. spielberg did you grow up and how did you grow a? >> i grew up outside of new york city a fairly typical upper-middle-class white suburban childhood and i grew up in the era when feminism was at its hottest. one of the things i write about in this book is when you grow up during an era in some