to debra newell, of orange county, california, the man who presented himself on the dating website dr meehan, anesthesiologist, looked very promising. >> he was the total package, a doctor, very intelligent, family man, loved his kids. >> not that attracting men had ever been difficult for debra, or any of the women in the family, according to her daughter terra. >> men kind of flock to them. >> really? what is it about the women of your family? >> well, they have really great hearts and they're pretty decent looking. >> good women, happy, successful, attractive. >> i love those barstools. >> debra owned a thriving interior design firm, and a moving company, and a silk flowers business. had dozens of employees. certainly no money worries. but -- she was in her fifties, marriages behind her. and she was looking. each potential mate carefully vetted by her watchful daughters. >> we were very judgmental of all the men that she dated. >> a little too judgmental? maybe. >> me and my sister could go over the top sometimes -- just very protective over my mom. >> but now debra wanted a romanc